This post is part of a paid campaign with American Crafts, but all opinions are my own.
Ever since my husband passed away last year I’ve been heartsick that I have so few photos of him. What’s worse is, the ones I do have are all digital and have been reduced for internet sharing.
Not good for making prints.
When American Crafts offered me the opportunity to make a Project Life album, I jumped at the chance, knowing I’d really have to search for photos of Marlon.
Not of Santino though. I take photos of my poor grandson at nearly every breath. And it’s gotten worse since his Poppy died.
Good thing he loves his gramma.
For my album I used three components –
A core kit, photo pocket pages, and a beautiful album. What I love about Project Life is it’s a super simple scrapbook system that doesn’t require glue, scissors, tools, and best of all, no special skills.
Perfect for someone who’s never scrapbooked, not to mention ever completed a photo album.
That’s almost sad, isn’t it?
Better late than never. And the whole reason why I wanted to write this post is so others don’t make the same mistake I made and not take pictures of your loved ones and your life!
I can’t tell you what I’d give to have shoeboxes full of 21 years’ worth of photos.
But I don’t have them. Which makes those I do have even more special and worth keeping them safe and displaying them so I can actually see them.
To get started, you’ll want to choose a Core Kit. I chose the Vintage Travel Core Kit because of the deep blues, reds and browns, along with a variety of darker neutrals.
Even though my photos don’t involve travel, this core kit comes with a variety of travel icons which so fun and I hope to use for future albums.
There are lots of other core kits available and Michael’s carries one of the largest selections, including two exclusive core kits – this Vintage Travel and The Dear Lizzy 5th and Frolic. That core kit features an array of light blues, pinks, greens, yellows and airy neutrals. The fun icons include birds, trees, foxes, houses, keys and clipboards. The edition has a distressed feel. Michael’s also has several exclusive albums as well.
I started my album by sorting through all of the cute cards in the core kit. Some have sayings, some have icons, others have writing blanks, and there are cute patterns on all of them.
Now, you scrapbookers out there are wondering why I didn’t start with my photographs, right?
Yes, well, I know that now. But that’s the cool thing about Project Life – it’s great for newbies like me, as well as veteran scrapbookers.
You can’t mess it up!
Trust me. This is unbelievable simple, yet so cute when you’re all done.
When I say “simple”, I mean Project Life. For me, this wound up being extremely hard, just because of the emotion tied up in all of these photographs.
I was totally unprepared for what I was about to go through.
(Why didn’t you warn me?)
Truth be told, I was fine sorting through all the pics on my computer. I sized them for the page pockets, blew them up as best I could, and uploaded them to be printed by a drug store.
I wasn’t about to fuss with my printer for this many photos.
Like I said, I was fine up until the point I had those shiny photographs in my hands . . . and then I saw him . . . so happy, so full of life.
I lost it. Just . . . lost it.
That’s when I knew I was in trouble. This was not gonna be easy.
I mean, Project Life is easy, but, me . . . going through all of these photos . . . not.easy.at.all.
I sorted and grouped them. Then I realized the error of my ways.
The page pockets have openings for 4 x 6’s and 3 x 4’s. Some are ‘portrait’ or vertical and some are ‘landscape’ or horizontal.
I hadn’t planned the pages before I picked the photos. So I had portrait and landscape for the same activity.
No worries though. I can just go back into my computer and resize them to fit and slide them into the pockets.
Just like that!
I kept going with what I had, filled all of the pockets, and then sat down to choose core kit cards and write some memories.
Um . . . no.
Did you see what else was on the table? Yeah. That box is now empty.
There is just something magical about photographs.
I never realized it before but, oh, I sure do now.
sniff. Magic.
I gave up on the ‘writing the memories’ part and patted myself on the back for making an album that ‘hurts so good’.
I totally stole that from one of my Facebook friends . . . but it’s so apt.
I have plenty of space, and time, to write the memories when I’m ready. Plus, I can add more photos simply by sliding them into the pockets. Or add more pages too.
I am in love with Project Life.
Wanna see some of my pages?
I thought you’d never ask.
Santino when he was not even two. He noticed how Poppy wore a ‘do-rag’ and wanted one on his pretty curls.
Poppy happily obliged.
Then Tino wanted cream, just like Poppy.
There was lotion everywhere.
Silly thing to record in photos, right? Huh uh. This was our life.
This is precious.
Those two were inseparable. I’m not kidding.
Oh, I was around too!
That photo in the upper left corner was Marlon’s favorite of Santino and me. It was on his phone and on his computer wallpaper.
But we never printed it out.
Until now.
Another seemingly unimportant day at a neighborhood carnival. Santino threw darts at balloons . . . lots and lots of darts . . . and ‘won’ a prize.
It took that child fore.v.e.r. to choose.
Marlon? He just was lost in Santino’s joy. Patient as all get out.
Always was.
A quality he passed down to our youngest, Tino’s dad.
I watched as he struggled to dress Santino in a tuxedo for my nephew’s wedding.
It was quite comical to watch. I needed the levity.
The wedding was five days after Marlon died.
Life goes on.
If he isn’t the cutest dang ringbearer in the entire world, I dunno what!
I have more photos of the two of them that’ll fill this page, and more. But these are my favorites right here.
Marlon was so insistent that Santino be in the pool his first summer. At least Marlon enjoyed himself.
And the photo in the lower right, that was the birthday present I made for Tino last year. It’s a pillow with a photo of him and Marlon on each side.
The pillow is made from the pants Marlon wore to the E.R.
The last pants he ever wore.
Now you see why I went through that entire box of Kleenex, huh?
But this is the last page . . . so far. Santino’s ‘graduation’ from preschool, shopping with Gramma, and the lower right . . . his first day of kindergarten when I picked him up from school.
He asked me if he could wear Poppy’s gold marlin that I always wear. He knows it’ll be his one day.
It was a milestone day. He had cried to his mom three days before school started, “my Poppy won’t be here to see me go to school!” So I made sure I was there, at least to pick him up.
We made it through that day. Together.
And we’ve made it through this last year.
Tomorrow he starts first grade. I’ll be there, camera in hand, ready to photograph our Life.
Those photos will go into this album too. And I’ll be stopping by Michael’s to pick up another album, just for Santino.
This one’s for me.
I want to thank American Crafts for providing me with this wonderful opportunity – a huge gift really – to use Project Life. Obviously I love it.
And it’ll make Christmas gift-giving a whole lot easier this year.
Colleen
Kim @ Everything Etsy says
Oh my word…I am so touched by your post and your beautiful memories! Big hugs to you for getting those photos in the album. I know that was hard!
I just started Project Life myself and I love seeing what other’s do with it.
Have a wonderful day!
Thanks for sharing your world with us!
~Kim
Sara @ Mom Endeavors says
Gah, Colleen! I’m now sitting here with tears streaming down my face!!! What a beautiful book of memories! This post captures the simplicity, beauty, and importance of Project Life SO perfectly! Santino will LOVE you putting one together for him. Hugs!
Colleen Jorgensen says
@Kim, I know you’ll love it as much as I do! Thanks so much for stopping by.
Colleen Jorgensen says
Goodness, Sara! I didn’t mean for you to cry too! haha. Thanks, though, for your lovely comments.
Yeah, I can’t wait to make one for Santino. It’ll have Marlon, of course, but also his sisters too. And then I have to get one for my nephew since he has a baby daughter!
Like I said, Christmas is taken care of this year!
Heidi @ Happiness is Homemade says
Add me to the list of those with tears streaming down my face! This post is so incredibly beautiful and moving, Colleen, and I can’t even imagine the strength it took to put this together. This album is going to be such a treasure to both you and sweet Santino. How nice to be able to flip it open and find all those wonderful memories in one place! *hugs*
Pam says
What a beautiful keepsake you’ve made for yourself. It’s a shame that we keep so many photos just on our computers now. I love to flip through my mom’s old photos and it just occurred to me that my son probably won’t be able to do that type of thing. I’d better get some of these photos printed off and in albums. Thanks for the kick in the butt to get started.
Laura Strack says
Gosh Colleen, it is so hard not to cry with you. From the Project Album that you’ve assembled, we all can see that Marlon was a wonderful Husband, loving Dad and super proud Poppy. This will definitely help Santino keep all those wonderful memories of his precious Poppy, alive in his heart and in his soul. And, just like in his pics’, I’m sure Marlon is smiling, knowing you are preparing such a beautiful tribute of his life. It is a gift that will keep on giving, year after year. Stay strong Sweet Lady!
Laura / The Shed by Pet Scribbles says
Oh my Colleen, I’m so thrilled that you began using Project Life – it seems like the perfect solution for you, in terms of taking your own time to write down memories while getting the pictures organized and into such beautiful displays.
The pictures are heart-breaking and heart-warming at the same time. From everything you’ve ever written, I know that Marlon was a wonderful husband, father, and especially grandfather to your adorable grandson. I can’t begin to fully understand the depth of your loss, but I have tears in my eyes for how strong you’ve been ever since he left this world.
What picture touched me most was on the “carnival” page layout, where Santino won a prize: that image of Marlon in the lower right-hand corner of the page. That. Right there. The way he’s smiling at you just tore at my heartstrings. That expression looked like it was just for you. Hugs to you, and many wishes for peace.
malia says
What a beautiful post Colleen! I am moved by your project. You embody why PL is so important and powerful. Hugs my sweet friend.